the goal
Always a bright side…
I’ve been an Eeyore lately, all doom and gloom about… everything. Chalk it up to having two months to go before our big day, but I’m feeling panic, denial, and a complete lack of motivation in equal amounts. With 60-ish days to go, I don’t feel like we’ve accomplished enough, will ever accomplish enough, or [...]
Read Full Post | Make a Comment ( None so far )Giving it up to get it back
I come from family of strong, independent, self-sufficient women. Mostly educators — and all well-educated — my people believed in smarts, creativity, and the value of a solid job to protect against the uncertainty of life, losses, and relationships. I learned their lesson well, choosing a career with transferable skills (IT project management) in a [...]
Read Full Post | Make a Comment ( None so far )The best day of my life?
I’ll admit, I have little patience for pretense or fuss, and I don’t think that my wedding day should be “the best day of my life.” What a sad thought to spend decades in marriage looking back at the day it all began.
On the other hand, I do want it to matter. I [...]


